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Appreciation at Work: How to Grow Strengths, Not Toxic Positivity

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Research shows that the highest-performing teams give each other about five positive comments for every one negative comment. And yet, when things are uncertain, the stakes are high, and we feel frustrated by others’ actions, it can be challenging to focus on what’s good.

This week, Lana Jelenjev and I discuss how to restore this balance. We explore:

Why focusing on appreciation is so challenging,
How to build a habit of celebrating strengths,
The connection between naming strengths and sharing our full essence,
How to offer feedback without alienating people,
The difference between celebrating what’s good and toxic positivity,
A strengths-based approach to meeting check-ins, hiring, and performance reviews,
And more.

If you want a deeper connection with yourself and your important people, more flow at work, and an all-around greater sense of joy, this one is for you.

About Lana:

Lana Jelenjev is co-founder of the Neurodiversity Foundation and the Neurodiversity Education Academy. She is the co-author of “What’s Strong With You? and “What’s Alive in You?” toolkits for coaches, teachers, leaders, and facilitators to bridge the gap for all neurotypes to thrive.

Rooted in the Filipino values of kapwa (seeing ourselves in our shared humanity) and pakikiramdam (deep, attuned sensing), Lana creates spaces for people to reconnect with themselves, with each other, and to witness and appreciate what has always been sacred. She lives in the Netherlands with her husband and two children.

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